Harassment of a woman alone always like a painful loneliness of life, especially the heart is more terrible loneliness. And modern life, many women are afflicted by this painful, they stay away from the crowd, his heart closed , living a life of self-pity, and even caused some people have distorted personality, mental disorders. In fact, everyone's life will be misfortune and frustration, when you face such a situation, it is better to face reality actively seek to resolve, over time, you will out of the woods and the unfortunate shadow. a woman, her husband died 5 years ago, she distraught, and since then, they fall into the loneliness and pain. What should I do? will start a new life - the ashes of the painful re-find their own happiness. I am no longer young, and children have grown up and married. Where else can I go? mood has not improved.
once, the doctor said to her: interest, do not wallow in the old memories. a married daughter living.
and unsatisfactory results, but what she and her daughter get along well, we turn to the relationship deteriorated even Chengchou. Later, she moved to live with a son, but also well not much.
later, the children bought an apartment together so she lived alone, this is not a real solution to the problem. One day she cried to the doctor, all the family abandoned her and go, no one wanted her old mother.
she is both pathetic and selfish, although 61 years old, but the mood was like a child is not mature.
many lonely lonely The reason why women would be so, because they do not understand the love and friendship is not a gift from heaven. one who wants to be welcomed by others, or being accepted, must pay a lot of effort and costs. to want others to like us, indeed price to pay. love, friendship or fun time, not a piece of paper can contract provisions, we have to face reality. whether her husband was dead, or the wife died, the living have the right to live happily. < br>
Let us look at another story.
have a cruise ship is sailing on the waters of the Mediterranean blue, above a married couple on vacation in many, many single unmarried men and women shuttle In the meantime, all excited, with the tempo dance band. Among them, there was a clear, single women, and Yue, about 60 years old, but also contend with the music from the music. The single woman and in front of people who friends, who have been widowed the pain, but she can put aside their own grief, decided to start his new life, re-launched the second spring of life, which is the result of a decision made after careful consideration.
< br> Her husband had been the focus of her life, she is also the most caring people, but it is all over. Fortunately, she has been a hobby - painting. she was very fond of painting, she now has become a spiritual sustenance . She was too busy painting, sad feelings gradually subsided. and because the result of efforts to paint, she opened his own business, so that their economy to full independence.
some time, she is difficult to mix with others , or his own thoughts and feelings about it. because a long time, her husband has been the focus of her life, her partner and strength. she knows she does not look good, and no enormously wealthy man, so desperate during that days, she repeatedly asked myself: How can the people accept me, need me.
she later found his answer - that was accepted to become the object, we should devote themselves to others , rather than waiting for someone to give yourself something. to make this point clear, she wiped away tears, smile, began to busy drawing, the time to visit friends and family, try to create a joyful atmosphere. Soon after, she began to become a Welcome to the object, not only have a friend who often invited her to dinner, or to the party, and also held exhibitions in the community clubhouse, always gives a good impression.
Later, she attended the ship tour round of the We are willing to become friends with her.
Since then, she knew she must be brave enough to fulfill our lives, and to contribute to the needs of her own people. she goes have left friendly atmosphere, everyone happy with her close.
Although the rapid development of technology, medicine developed, but the female population with autism is always intrusive.
Mills College in Oakland, California, president of Forest Dr. White, a young woman in the dinner party, published a very interesting speech, the content is mentioned in this modern autism. by David Riesman's words, we are 'lonely group'. As rapid population growth, people's character is also different, not tell who is in the ... ... live in such an eclectic world, coupled with the Government and various business models, people must often change from one place to another place to work - so that people can not be sustained friendship, like entering another ice age times, like, so that endless human heart feel cold. friendship relations, the same as kerosene lamps burning, the flame is small, can still produce a light and warm to.
female compatriots To overcome loneliness, to be away from the shadow of self-pity, courage into the full light of the crowd.'m going to meet people, to make new friends. No matter where, should elated to share their joy with others.
According to statistics, most of the married women, the average life expectancy than their husbands high. However, once their husbands died, these women's lives are very difficult to sustain innovation. Why is there such a result? usually a couple of them, sir, is more robust than the wife, but also more aggressive. wife most of the family-centered, and family members along as the main object. So, she must live alone, or the pursuit of personal happiness, there is no psychological preparation. So, they live or work in pressure on the relatively much smaller than their husband, their average life expectancy will be high.
few years ago, two girls, they rented an apartment in New York were living in Eastern District. Two girls all look very attractive, also has a good treatment of the work, they want to one day succeed. surprise, one of the girls, she thought that girls living in the city - especially the single girls, must be carefully organize their lives and plan their own future. she went to a church to actively participate in various activities, also joined a seminar, or even an improved personality elective courses. She used her salary with people on and create a colorful existence. Later, she was a bright young lawyer and married a very happy married life. This is her emphasis on life.
As for the other girl? She could also be lonely, but did not care to arrange their lives. she went to a number of playgrounds or bars looking for friends, finally, also joined a club that is to help alcoholics the to strive to win.
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