Change your life 90 10 Principle

Read Stephen Covey discovered by the 90/10 principle, your life may change, at least, your attitude towards things is not the same as before. What is the 90/10 principle

? That is, in your lifetime, only 10% of the things you can do nothing, and 90% of the things being in your grasp.

aging we can not stop the car out of trouble, we can not expect the plane was delayed, the driver of our trip might be delayed on the road, and so on, these are events we can not control. However, the remaining 90% is not the same, such as the red light you might not around, waiting for the bus was able to control your emotions. Consider the following example:

you are having breakfast with his family, his daughter accidentally knocked over the coffee cups, dirty your suit. This is an unexpected event, you can not stop it from happening, and then how things develop depends entirely on your reaction.

your rage, severely reprimanded her, she burst into tears. After scolding her, you turn to your wife, blaming her for placing the cup too close to get away from the edge of the table, your wife had an argument with you. After you angrily upstairs, for the pieces of clean clothes, went downstairs and found her still in tears, held up breakfast, and thus missed the school bus. Wife have a hurry, so you are responsible to send their daughters to school, as are late, you to 40km / h speed limit the speed at 30km / h area flight. To do this you are fined 60 dollars and an additional 15 minutes delayed. School to the daughter and never looking back straight towards the school. When you go to the company, already 20 minutes late, and when you find a forgotten briefcase. The next day, things are getting worse and worse, you look forward to go home early. At home, you can obviously feel for your daughter and estranged wife. All this is why? Because coffee, daughter, or the police, or their own? The answer is your own.

for spilled coffee, you can not, and then the performance of the five seconds, but decided a day. Here is another scenario:

accidentally spilled coffee cup, your clothes dirty, the daughter soon to cry, you said softly: a. Bring down your briefcase on time, watched her through the window on the school bus, waving goodbye to your daughter turned. You at least five minutes to reach the company, and happily with my colleagues to say hello.

is not very different? The same at the beginning, not the same outcome. Some things you really can do nothing, but in most cases, you can be controlled.

how should we do? If someone says you are ill, do not mind, do not let negative comments affect your behavior. The right response, it will save you a great day, without due performance and may cause you to lose friends, lose their jobs, or carrying heavy pressure. Imagine you are in a traffic jam driving reaction may lose patience? Beat the steering wheel (there was a friend to hammer out the steering wheel ... ...)? Abusive? Blood pressure? Who cares about you a few minutes late for it? Why so quiet and dark a day? When you are fired, think of the 90/10 principle of it, why should we toss and turn, furious it? No use, with the time and energy to find another job. The plane was late, your trip is delayed, why should gas spread to the aircraft, using this time to learn, to look pedestrian, impatience will only make things worse.

Now you know what is the 90/10 principle, and apply it to your lives and you will find that the effect is very amazing, you even will not lose anything. Problems of millions of people were being tortured by the pressure and headaches, we also need the 90/10 principle, it will change your life, you just need a little bit of will power to execute it. Looking forward to return before see if they have not paid, may not be paid a return, but you still sit back and relax, because your mind has been marked by the stigma of love.